Diss the haters

Everyone hates bullies. Haters. They suck. Two faced dweebs? Even worst.

Luckily, I’m pretty toughed skin. I’m not very fast to react to comments (which makes me look really stupid when I’m being dissed in person cuz there will be a long pause in the middle before my comeback), but that’s a good thing. Especially against haters.

Why?

Well, you probably hear this a lot on writing blogs, but it’s a good thing to follow: you’re not always going to hear flattering things, so taking your time to respond to critism or, you know, flamers on your writing is a good thing. Now, I’m not saying that everyone who reads your stories/comments are just saying mean things to be mean. Or because they hate you. Or because they can. Sometimes you’ll get a response that hurts a lot and you’ll feel like commenting right back saying that he’s an idiot who doesn’t know what he’s talking about. But, taking a few days to reread and think it through will help you realize they aren’t actually flamers at all. They actually gave good advice, whether you agree with it or not. And you should thank them.

But, there are haters out there. Flamers at their worst. To tell you the truth, I got flammed a couple of times on my first draft of a story I wrote. The flame comments were stupid, made me laugh, and I was kinda giggly cuz I didn’t think someone would ever flame me in the first place (I had this weird idea that only really good writers get those, so I felt slightly honored). But after a while they got annoying. And it hurt a bit.

[EDIT: So my sister was reading over my shoulder just now, and she laughed at the word “flames” and “flamer.” Since I’m so used to those words by now, it made me realized not everyone knows what it means. It simply means people who talk bad about you, the author, instead of saying constructive crits about your story. They attack you with no real reason at all.]

So here’s what I’m saying: diss the haters- secretly. Complain about it with your friends. Feel slightly honored that someone took the time to give you something to laugh about later. Don’t let it bring you down, and reply back with a simple “Thank you for your time” or dont reply at all.

Because really, you’re better than them.

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